By lucky I don't mean spoiled. I don't mean to they get everything they want. I mean how good are their experiences?
As one of my children cracks open a coconut, tips out the juice and begins to scrape out the coconut flesh to enjoy I realise they're experiencing something lucky. They are unaware of that. All they know is they asked if they could get a coconut, mum said yes and now they're trying one out.
My child doesn't know that when mum was a little girl she never experienced such a thing and most likely would have been told no if she'd asked. Were coconuts even in the supermarket when I was little?
They're not thinking about the thousands of people living in poverty who don't get to eat let alone have their own coconut.
They don't know that their obese friend will never get to experience something like that.